Breaking Spankings? August 23, 2006
Posted by Chelle in My Thoughts.trackback
Are breaking spankings good or bad? I feel that if there is a need for a breaking spanking and both are in agreement then there is nothing wrong with it. If there is one person against it then that can get pretty darn complicated and even result in hurt feelings, feelings of rejection ect. I have the need for a breaking spanking, although my Dom feels that I don’t need it ….but I feel I do….now who is right? who is wrong? He doesn’t understand why I need it but really it’s me that has to understand, not him. Breaking spankings can be theraputic in alot of ways …it breaks down barriers/walls …let’s the person release anger, stress, sadness, guilt ect….it is something that is very personal and it shouldn’t be taken lightly. I don’t see breaking spankings as a negative …but more as a positive if it helps the person who has asked for it. And if your Dom truly loves you and truly wants to help you then I feel he would agree to it ….if he is totally against it then you have to really evaulate his love for you, at least that is my opinion on the matter!
I think a breaking spankings are good things. It also depends greatly on who needs to be it and who will be doing it. Myself I have been wanted that for a very long time and have been wishing and craving it, but I do not have anyone that I am close with. Close enough for me to let it all out and let them see me when I am at the most open can could be hurt as all my walls and all other self protection is down and I am wide open like that.